Note on this post, and every post for that matter: I answer these journal activities as they relate to ME. My opinions are towards myself, NOT OTHERS. I may think one thing is true for myself, while the exact opposite is true for others, in fact, that’s the story of my recovery.
Journal Activity page 15
“What is the difference between a Victim and a Survivor?”
In my opinion a victim is someone who has something negative happen to them, which is NOT THEIR FAULT. Whereas a survivor lives through something, negative or positive, no matter who’s fault it was.
I consider myself a survivor by that definition, only because I don’t see what happened as not my fault. However, to further what a victim may be, which I do consider myself to be, is weak and someone who hasn’t “gotten over” what happened.
I don’t truly see myself as a survivor though. When I hear the word “survivor” I think of someone who is strong and gotten through bad times and doesn’t dwell on them.
“How do you think you will recognize the point when you have transformed from victim to survivor?”
I don’t know if I will ever really transform to a full blown survivor. Although I guess I would have to be able to think about, or even speak about, all the negative things without it being a problem and not bothering me immensely. I’d also like to be able to help others, so when I’m ready to do that, it will be a sure sign that I have become a survivor.